No
matter how good a herbwife’s intentions, sometimes you have to do what you can
with what is easily available with tools you have to hand. This was why I found
myself, last Friday morning, trudging along sodden hedgerows in my mother’s
wellingtons with cold November rain rattling down around me. The left boot
leaked so my sock was becoming increasingly wet but I was determined not to be
beaten until my basket was sufficiently full of rosehips and sloes to make my
suffering father a new batch of syrup for his cold and cough.
My
father will be eighty-six next month. He comes from small, Welsh, farming stock
and was brought up in depression-ridden Black Country until his mother died
from TB when he was ten and his father found a Warwickshire farmer to
apprentice him to a different life. He’s always been strong with boundless
energy. Someone, who could do anything he set his mind to but the last ten
years of caring for my increasingly fragile mother have taken their toll. He
needs lots of sleep and worries, so we visit every fortnight and I provide most
of their food so he only has to cook occasionally.
Our
last visit to their farm, a month ago, culminated in another bout of inflamed
gallbladder pain for me. It resolved by the following morning, as it usually
did and as my eldest son and his family were spending the weekend with us, I
ignored it. It was the premiere of my daughter’s first play, performed by her
new drama company and directed by my second son. It was a resounding success
and Chris and I were so please her brother and sister in law could share in the
excitement.
For
me it was the beginning of the end. My gallbladder decided it would not be
ignored any longer. After four days of continuous pain I gave in and asked
Chris to call the GP, expecting him to prescribe pain killers and nothing else.
It was somewhat shocking for him to take one look at me and arrange immediate
admission to hospital.
It
was an interesting eight days. The care was exemplary; the staff wonderful - skilled,
caring and compassionate. I learned many things about myself and other people. The
greatest torture was not having two professionals trying to find a vein in both
my arms to take a cannula for one and a half hours when I spiked a fever; it
was being forced to listen to adrenalin-ridden TV soaps by my neighbours every
evening when all I wanted to do was sleep!
Luckily,
the fever had abated by the time the Upper GI surgeon came to see me, so he
decided against an emergency cholecystectomy. I quite like my gall bladder,
even though it’s now full of stones so I was glad to keep it for a while
longer. They pumped me full of so much saline, potassium and hardcore
antibiotics, I was awash with fluids, hands swollen and deeply purple arms.
Everything
resolved once I came home. I could walk, talk, sleep and turn over on both
sides without discomfort. A low fat diet cooked from scratch from real
ingredients is no hardship although I shall miss peanut butter, hummus and
cream.
Did
I take any herbs once I had access to my larder? Yes, but I kept it simple. Dandelion
and burdock to help support the assault on my liver by all the complex pharmaceuticals,
yarrow to deal with all the bruising and nettle seed with my morning porridge
to combat all the stressful situations I’d been through. Lots of low-fat yoghurt
with fresh fruit to help rebuild my gut bacteria.
For
over a week I was forced to rest, doing nothing more strenuous than checking emails
and watching whatever TV programmes I desired. It was bliss. I even managed to
attend my niece’s wedding, touched by how pleased everyone was to see me.
The
following week I prepared more food for the farm in between resting. We had no
idea my father had succumbed to a virus brought in by one of my mother’s
carers. He grew progressively worse over the Thursday and finished the bottle
of rosehip syrup I’d brought him previously. I made it into a tasty drink by
covering the base of a small cup with syrup, adding lemon juice and pouring
over boiling water from the kettle on the hob.
Making
a new batch of rosehip syrup seemed my best course of action since I could walk
along the next door fields but there was no way I could visit my herb beds to
gather sage and thyme. I might walk down there but could not have walked back.
The
rosehips were large and plentiful. I found sloes for extra vitamin C in the rickyard
and greater plantain rosettes were plentiful in the lawn to soothe any
inflammation in his chest. Chickweed was growing in the greenhouse so was added
to the mix for even more vitamin C.
The
pan full of herbs simmered away on the Rayburn while my father returned to bed
and fell into a heavy sleep. I cooked a lamb chop casserole to feed my parents
over the weekend and vegetables to go with the bolognaise sauce I’d prepared at
home for lunch that day.
With
no hand blitzer, the syrup responded well to an ordinary potato masher,
producing two pints of deep, thick, rose liquid. I’d found five jars and
bottles to sterilise, producing enough syrup to keep everyone going over the
next few months. It tasted good as well.
The
carers were intrigued. Both hail from Portugal.
“Did
you buy the ingredients?” asked Maria, who told me she wanted to take a Chinese
herbal medicine course next year. I
shook my head, wondering how it would even be possible to source what I had
foraged when the nearest town is sixteen miles away and there is no internet
access at the farm for online shopping.
My
father had previously given Maria a dose of the cough syrup I made for my
mother’s constant, mucous-driven cough when she was suffering. She said it had
cured her.
“You
should sell all this, it’s delicious!” Maria enthused but I explained I was
more interested in teaching others to make their own medicines rather than
entering the maze of commercial regulation.
It’s
been a challenging month and I am still spending a great deal of time resting,
although probably not enough! My father is much improved and grateful we were
there when he needed us and for the full store cupboards and freezers. Although
the text books will all tell you to pick herbs when they are dry, there will be
times when much can be gained by foraging in the rain.
6 comments:
Sorry to hear about the gall bladder, it sounds like you had a really rough time! Thank goodness you have the resources to build yourself up. Hope you continue to keep that stony gall bladder for some time to come. WS xxx
Sounds like you've had a rough trot indeed! Glad to hear everyone is on the mend, and I must say it's wonderful to hear of carers supporting the use of your homemade medicine. Too often people fight what they're not familiar with, or don't understand.
Even with Internet or city access, it would be impossible to source the quality of ingredients you used, much less the skill and knowledge you carry with you.
Glad to hear you got to keep your gall bladder, there are all sorts of things that go wonky when they take them out! Glad to hear you and your father are on the mend!
g'day
glad you & your father are feeling better, enjoy reading your blog, some of the herbs & herbals you have are quite fascinating
selina from kilkivan qld
Your posts are fascinating! I need lots of time now to read them! Sarah x
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